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MARRIAGE GO ROUND

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       Marriage, the sworn oath, the intertwining of hearts, whatever you call it, there’s never a moment where the difficulties that arise when you’re dealing with your partner would ever go smoothly as you might’ve expected it to be. The ups and downs on this particular matter would be faced frequently throughout your journey after marriage, and it’s definitely different from the problems you’ve faced in any other situation such as your studies, etc. Keeping a marriage intact is not easy even if it might sound simple. “Just love your wife or husband”, some people might say, but its way more complicated than that when a whole load of emotions roll in. I can’t really speak for myself here because I’m not married yet. As far as I’ve seen others getting married, it puts me in a trance of deep thoughts about getting married. Going through marriage ceremonies, and seeing people whom I’ve known getting married makes me wonder, can those two really stay happy or maintain their happin
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A RANGE OF CHANGES

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       As we ride along the waves of life, change comes in a variety of forms. It may take years to develop or it can happen in an instant. Change is undoubtedly inevitable, and following from such would be the question of how that change would affect our progression in furthering a change in ourselves or the way we do things for better or worse. Change is achieved by trial and error throughout history bringing us to where we are now. Therefore, I believe that the trial and errors performed now will be improvised and refi ned to further serve the generations to come in observing the change that has brought us and them thus far.       It is of human nature that we want change or want to change so badly there are times we do not wish to be the change we want to see or to even change to avoid the change. In some instances, when we do experience the change occurring, we then back away from it because it changes what we hold all this time. No matter the consequences, we change, and s
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THE UNEXPECTED.

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       Hey everyone, so I’ve not updated my blog in a long time, so here’s a self-expressive article about how I went about things that had happened in my life and how I met a person who was able to understand and to relate to the things I’ve gone through. I’m quite sure that most of us, if not all of us, have gone through that phase of life where we think that we would never find the right person to be with, a few possible reasons could be previous relationships that have gone sour, or staying single to save yourself for the right one. For the longest of time I thought of everything that everyone had thought off, meaning to say that i might not meet that perfect one. The truth is, there isn’t a perfect one, but sometimes, you just meet people in life and there will be ones that help you grow to prepare you for a person who would have gone through the same and there will be this certain click that i can’t describe when such occurs. “When it comes, it comes”.          If you have b
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THE LOST BELIEF

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There was a man, he thought of this world as a beautiful place, a never ending story that unfolds as he unravels the empty scroll of his life that is to be written by him and those whom he passes it to.   Alas, never was he so wrong in many ways, that the manifold things that took place when he walked the path that he chose to walk as his own and not because he was born and instructed to do so from whence he came from, took its toll on him.  More than anything else, he wanted to accept that some things are just not meant to be and that these things are the way they are for reasons he’ll never be able to comprehend. An excuse he tells himself, because he can never find the answer to them no matter how hard he tries. Every moment perishes as he cherishes it in a second, and some he’ll remember and forget as time flies and slips through his hands.  Sadness over weighs the joy at times, and sometimes he finds it hard to fork out a smile even in the joyous of ti
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TO FALL IN LOVE

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Each one of us expresses our love differently towards others. Here are my thoughts on love, an essence that permeates through a human that makes me question myself as to why it exists.    What does it mean for someone to fall in love? Is it a feeling? An expression? A choice? Or just mere infatuation? We have been seeing people define love in all sorts of manner. But how do we define love? Is it in a lustful manner? Or showed by just giving stuff or caring about others? A person once asked me about whether I would love a person or to be loved by a person. My thoughts on it were substantially naive, because I would choose neither. If one does not love and want to be loved, it’s rather self-centered and if one wants to love and does not want to be loved, that to me would be a portrayal of self-sacrificial martyr. It cannot be either one. To love is to be loved and to be loved is to love; sometimes we need to incorporate one into the other. If it’s either, the person that is af
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